Love Story

This love story, of my parents,  has affected my perception of relationships because I have witnessed their relationship throughout my whole life. I have noticed that love is not how it is described in movies or in songs, but that doesn’t mean that it isn’t good. I learned from their story that it is best not to expect yourself to fall in love because you may meet the person you will marry when you least expect it. They were set up to meet by their mutual friends, and I learned that everyone’s love moves at their own pace. They only had known each other for a little over a year when they got married, but other couples are engaged for much longer, but it is better to do what is best for your own relationship.

Their story is not as dramatic as the stories on television and in movies, but they did meet on a “blind date” and they did fall in love rather quickly. I also think it is harder to make up in real life from a fight or a misunderstanding than is usually portrayed in movies. Often, couples have to deal with many unexpected and sudden issues hat test their relationships that are often sugarcoated in movies. A song that connects with their story is “Time After Time” by Cyndi Lauper as she sings, “If you fall I will catch you - I'll be waiting, Time after time,” because I think it shows how they can both rely on each other in times of need, regardless of the number of times they may need the support. I think this is an important part of having a lasting relationship.